If not for you letters lessen tween Mum and me. No "just give her a bit of milk Simon" occupying a space or "she's in now, she's safe, she's by the fire place". "No, don't give a cat bread" unsaid. Unsaid. Thankfully we've feline fine with purry lingo bopping; I love you and love the sight of engendered convergence by tabby dynamite.