I've always thought it a bit cruel that my mother named me Trista Joy. Doomed to a fate of being pulled, polarizing at two ends of the spectrum of emotion. Smacked into the middle of a war that has been waged for thousands of years. Millions of lives lost to both happiness and sadness.
A walking contradiction can only move about in one way. Circling what I thought I knew, and what really is. Am I meant to be extreme in expression, ferociously flippant from side to side? Was I born without the ability to reach the medium?
A children's movie once taught me that happiness cannot exist without sadness, and in that I often find solace. But I live in a world where people run, fight, and hide from half of what I am, and obsessively strive for the other. It gets exhausting, suppressingΒ Β the spring loaded spirit that is being sad. Happiness can only hold its ground for so long.