Hello Joe, I'm married to Jim I'm sure that you remember him I know it's been a lot of years I'm sure there's been a lot of tears I'd like to help, to reconcile So think about it for a while I am a soldier, you were too We both did what we had to do And we both know war takes a toll It leaves a black mark on your soul No matter what you try to do It makes it hard to be with you Whiskey just won't chase away The ghosts that haunt you every day Before you know just what you've done You lost your wife and lost your son The damage done you can't undo And I'm sure that's not lost on you Your son's a man and he's so fine I'm very proud to call him mine I know it's more than 20 years You may be rightly full of fears I hear his childhood wasn't great A violent time and full of hate In Germany, the cold war chill And home grown trauma left him ill Back to Suffolk, civvy street Life still violent, not too sweet But Jim grew into quite a guy His childhood makes me wonder why He overcame as time flew by It's not the beatings that you gave That helped him learn to be so brave Your son's a pilgrim brave and true Despite and not because of you But now I've found you, Happy Day So what you got to say?
I've been looking for my husbands father, Joe Cole. I found him here. I've never met him but am looking to do so. I'd like to know what sort of man he is