How can you tell me I'm not a man? Because under neither my baggy shirts and ties I have two things attached to my chest that feel like they are crushing me. Slowly leaking the air out of my lungs. How can you say I'm not a man? Because under my jeans and boxers I have the female anatomy. How can you tell me I'm not a man? When I know I am one. Body parts do not define the person. The person defines themselves. I'm just as much of a man as the next man. Regardless of what I have.