its different the 2nd time around after you have been heartbroken and you finally recover then he comes back and this time he is the one that is hurting when you finally put yourself back together he comes back asking for more this time he is different but you lost your love you had for him the first time..if you even loved him if anything you should love him this time around because he's finally doing what you wanted... kinda he is better than he was but there is still something missing why do you continue this? because its the easier route easier to be loved than to love thats how its always been and the fact that the one who broke your heart somewhat wants you again well why not only have only one foot in? you dont know if you actually still like him or not, or if you ever truly did but now, you hit the realization that he's not what you want and wont ever be all you are is a helping hand for him it's a strange relationship considering you change your mind so much and you cant tell between reality and dreams you dream of the perfect relationship and the day the one comes to you because wont it feel different than it does now? was it just an infatuation with him the first time? or the fact that he was new? you never did stay occupied for that long before moving on you always push aside the nice ones because you feel you'll never love them you grow bored of them to easily yet it is the easier choice will it be different when the one comes along? maybe this is just you making yourself feel this way maybe your feelings are true but how would you know? You are looking for something you just don't know what exactly sometimes you find it in him, sometimes you find it in others or are you just so low that you can't stay involved in one relationship without thinking of others? maybe its not them, its you. you find it difficult yet at the same time easy you are polar opposites and maybe that's why you look at more than one person you just dont want to regret anything or make mistakes because failure is your biggest fear and you are a perfectionist which adds to everything else so what now