I am not Tobias. I am not going to get drunk and ignore the world. I am going to deal with things like he ******* should be. I don’t really know where to start… music, I guess. I put on one song from Foster the People, a slow one. One that makes me want to cry further, but at the same time, it makes me feel calm. A calm that says, “everything can stop now. You are sad, you are in a sad place, but it can stop for now and you can have a break.” For the first four times it plays, I don’t move. I sit in my blanket and gather myself. I wipe off the tears, I swallow the spit, I let the blood come back into my left foot, and I begin to breathe again. Tobias will come over tomorrow and things can figure themselves out later.
I go down to the freezer and I get out a banana flavored popsicle. I have always loved this flavor more than any of the others. It seems more real, more whole. That is something that I need to feel right now. I feel the popsicle with my tongue, and I let it consume me. I let it freeze my mouth, and I let it dribble over my teeth, and I feel it melt on the roof of my mouth. The song keeps playing in my bedroom, but loud enough that it isn’t in the background. I stand in my bedroom with only a faint light on, and I sway to the music. I hang my head as a tribute to my sadness, but I let one arm be free. I want something to feel free. The other hand holds the popsicle that now drips on the ground.
When the song slows, I just stare at the Popsicle drops, and I place my foot under them so that they can drip on me. I feel how cold they are and how sticky they will be later. I imagine the color of yellow that will stain my sheets. But mostly, I want to save the feeling. I want to save this sticky, sweet sadness that I feel right now. This jealous, angry, crying sadness. I want to know how it feels in the middle of the night to remind myself that I can always taste the Popsicle and feel okay. This Popsicle has saved me tonight from laying in bed and yelling about how much I hate him.
When the Popsicle is gone, I still hold the stick in my hand so I can examine the wood. I want to see the curve and the thickness and the words printed on it. I don’t read them. I don’t want to know. But I know that they are there. I never want to know what the words say, or what they did. I only want to know if there will be other words for me to read later. Will there be any words left for me tomorrow?
I feel like being messy. Sadness makes me messy. So I crawl into bed, holding the popsicle stick in my hand, making it sticky, and I ask somebody to help. I don’t ask god, because he has failed me for the very last time, and I don’t ask my parents, because this is something that needs to stay within me. So I pray deep into myself, the blue/green part of me that lives inside my mind and makes me strong. I pray to the blue/green to make me feel everything tomorrow. Let me feel the toothpaste that burns my tongue, let me feel the water be too hot tomorrow in the shower, and let me be so affected by The Fault in Our Stars that I cry and cry because I loved that character so much but at the same time I knew it had to happen. So, Blue/Green, let me feel everything that happens to me tomorrow, so that when it comes down to Tobias, it wont matter because I have all these other beautiful things to feel.