How do you separate yourself from a rotten pile? Throw yourself also? No. Whatever is rotten that sticks to you, you might become one of them too. So, I want you to identify which is rotten and which is not.
Like a puzzle, you do not try to fit in a piece if it is not fitted to be there.
Or when you see a plant that is withering, what will you do? Will you cut the stem? The leaves? The branches? The flowers? Roots? Or will you pull it off? No. Assess the soil. Wherever you are planted, you prosper, you grow. But when you did not prosper and grow, ask yourself, is the soil you are planted in right now making you grow? No. Time to replant yourself to a new soil. Comfort zone is never good. The real comfort zone is the awkward zone.
Fit yourself in the right place, environment and circle.
It does not mean you click and vibe each other, you become friends but respect is not served.
Choose wisely!