let her know you’re ruined now that she’s gone write down every mistake she has ever made collect all your dignity and pour it elsewhere always ask whether or not she loves you feel sorry for yourself every single day ignore her if she tries to atone to you pretend you never cared about her compare her love to being in hell make sure she feels remorseful fall in love with someone else tell her she ruined you again do not ever apologize for it use her words against her make yourself indignant let yourself lose touch fill others with hate ignore her entirely she ruined you **** her over lose control neglect it be cold leave go