Basically how I role with all humans I will care about you until you have proven repeatedly that I cannot count on you then I am building up my protective gear and saddling up for whatever I hear next. So you break my trust it is hard to gain it back but I will never shun anyone although I do step away from friendships if they require a lesson to not behave a certain way. I have ear issues and anything repeated can actually give my ear physical pain and my 9 year old thinks its funny to use that when feeling feisty but it is always short lived for her hahaha. plus I use the swimmers ears plugs they are magical and I suggest every human have one in 1 ear at all times haha! then you can drowned out sounds yet hear if needed.it works wonders for me with kids & adults!!