Let me start off with a story that's pretty easy to tell
Boy Meets Girl Boy and girl talk Boy and girl become friends Girl is already dating someone but it's fine Girl gets heartbroken Boy sticks by her and cheers her up Girl is thankful for support Boy develops crush Boy is confused, he has feelings but doesn't want to hurt the friendship Boy finally decides to tell girl how he feels Girl responds with "I like you but not like that" Boy, naturally hurt, decides to stay around, thinking he'll have a chance with her. Girl dates another guy.. gets heartbroken Boy plays crying shoulder again The cycle repeats himself Boy finally gives up on girl and moves on. Boy Meets another girl, Girl he had crush on realizes that he would've been husband material had she seen it Boy and girl never speak, wondering what would've been.
So ladies take a small lesson from this story If you're looking for someone to appreciate all your glory If you want someone to appreciate the happiness in your space most of the time, what you're looking for is right in front of your face.