my father is always talking, lecturing i just get quiet like a little girl and i listen majority of the time i have no idea what he's talking about so i just listen i start thinking had i grown up with him how would my life be different? would i have ever been homeless? would i have had four kids? and would i have trouble making poor man decisions? i'm not ashamed of my truth i know i have daddy issues but i think it's where i go from here that will make me resilient i used to pride myself on not needing validity but as i dig a little deeper i come to see more of that heavy murky stuff that's deep inside of me