Don't ask don't tell doesn't work too well when this has become an epidemic Homes broken, trust shattered, lives lost. All to uphold a standard and at what cost? Don't talk about it and it'll go away, or so they say. If you can't trust those closest to you.. where do you turn? Not him. not her. not them. Yourself. You bottle it up, because if you don't talk about it, it goes away...right?