"I want you to meet the guy I'm dating He's trans- don't tell mom and dad" Well, *******. you plan to introduce him to a man who won't call him a him Or respect his wishes who will behave rudely unnecessarily and a woman who will instinctively think there is something wrong with his personality that he can't 'just be satisfied with what he was born with' and will think there's something wrong, abnormal, weird, gross I hope he's a good guy and I hope my parents grow a couple more tolerant bones Before they meet him because I'm scared for you and him and I hope it'll be alright.