At home, we each have our cell our monastic life dedicated to words and deeds My words, his deeds
Walks after work turning on each other's axis like spiral trees on the edge of an abyss
Practical issues we discuss, the undiscussable I write down in precise sentences No endless talk
certainly not about myself And in my struggle to be seen as I am
never using improper words as a weapon rather encouraging him to be his best self
Autobiography "In den vreemde - Kronieken" ("In foreign parts - Chronicles", 2024, Frida Vogels), chapter 'Kees en ik' ('Neil and I') - March 20th, 1983, Bologna
When a trunk grows spirally, each root supplies water to leaves on all sides of the tree, and sugars from each individual branch reach roots on all sides of the tree