Why do I growl when I'm upset? Grrr I want to hold you Grrr I need your touch Grrr please help me Maybe I growl because the only part of me that is allowed to feel pain is the Beast. Maybe the Beast lurks behind my tongue, wanting to scream, but only able to scare. I pity this Beast. It does not bite, and it cannot bark. Its sole connection to the world is a defensive, angry, growl.