To be a lover is to hold the utmost importance, care, and intention when loving someone as you would love yourself The limits of a lover are held in those moments when love feels like the impossible choice To be a lover is to take those very impossible choices and make them a moment of grace, courage, and compassion To be a lover is to be as patient as the slow moving moon, stoical in the night sky holding an intense glow, savoring every moment of anticipation while waiting for the bright sun to return and smile back at him The limits of a lover are held in those moments when loving yourself is an option, a choice, and an impossible one to To truly be a lover is to love the impossible and stare it down with the intensity and heat that love brings in its stride I don't see myself as a lover but one day I would love to be one
Just went through a break-up, it was an act of radical self-love but I still don't fully understand what that means.