Your lack of communication is infinitely frustrating, so when you ask me why I haven't called you yet it's because I knew you wouldn't answer.
You don't want to actually talk about anything, you just want some kind of validation of your actions. Well now you've got it, you made the right call.
When I first found that note, my initial reaction was a great sense of irritation and anger. When I could think clearly again I found that my true feeling was one of immense relief. Relief that it's over and that I no longer have to be so God ****** annoyed anymore. Relief because it's over, and I didn't even have to be the one to end it. You're really too kind.
The note was perfect, it allowed us to just walk away without the strain of seeing each other one last time. I walked away, and I was not angry and I was not sad. I crumpled up the note, chucked it over my shoulder and it landed perfectly in the garbage can behind me. I felt free.
But when you go and message me nearly three weeks later asking why I haven't called you, the relief fades back into anger. It fades back into irritation, annoyance, and frustration. I don't mind feeling those feelings, but what I do mind is that you're too fragile of a being to be able to communicate while I am in that state.
So either stand up and talk to me, or walk away and let me feel relief. Let me be free.