I can give you water but I can't quench your thirst I can give you food but I can't stop your hunger I can tell you jokes but I can't make you laugh I can call you spiteful names but I can't hurt you
You must eat You must drink You must laugh You must cry
I can't make you happy I can't make you sad I can't force you to love me I can only give you the ingredients but you must choose to make the meal.
Nobody can affect your spirit, good or bad, unless you allow it. Your peace, your happiness, your love is all within your control. That can be a terrifying thought but it can also be freeing. People's criticism can only upset you if you listen and allow it too. If I pay you a compliment, doesn't mean you will accept and believe it. You are in control of you.