The prettiest one wins everything. I read a good book teaching me this great lesson. To be a winner means to do anything but also have all the means.
How? Well... I hope you'll find the book to teach you just how. There are many out there. Find what suits you best.

(appearances matters! Just like everything else.)

And don't you tell me that **** didn't matter 'cause it did make you react in a certain way.