It does not end abruptly, nor is it brief. It begins with sleeping in too late, Sometimes lunch or dinner is forgotten, Laughter sounds hoarse, even forced They didn't do up their seatbelt yesterday, Pharmacies will call for missed refills, They won't make plans for next month, Eventually they won't make plans at all, When is the last time they showered? Did you see them eat the other day? Is their phone off? Have you heard anything?