you have to have some belief in yourself without arrogance hold yourself against the hurricane of life lean into it but try to make it natural when asked about your achievements speak quietly succinctly donβt waste your words on mindless fantasies be honest but at the same time be a little proud mention the good points leave out the embarrassing bits talk about the struggle they like that to see youβve suffered earned it be a voice in a room not a face in the crowd be remembered when you walk away let the wind carry you under your tiny wings