I made up this thing after I read the first and thought I would add my own little verse 10 ways a husband can add value to his life and make sure he takes good care of his wife the first is respect, yes it goes both ways if you respect her, you'll have much happier days the second is listen to her when she speaks even when it seems like she'll go on for weeks if you listened the very first time around maybe you could avoid having to hear the sound of her rambling on about it again and again driving you to want to commit some bad sin create a safe place so she won't feel judged or you may start hearing a "truth" that is fudged be honest with her in all that you do because women can sniff out any clue if you think you have pulled the wool over her eyes sorry, but trust me, you haven't, guys the fifth one is lead, and do it with care don't be a tyrant or cruel or unfair our first boss is God, and if you're not in line you can see our obedience start to decline so lead by example and lead from love and you will have God's help with us from above Serve is for both a husband and wife this will create a happier, love-filled life both of you share in the cooking and cleaning always be helpful and never demeaning husbands are called to be joyful too nobody can handle someone always blue it drains on your soul and drags you both down then your married to a face that's stuck in a frown pray for her, she needs God's help too after all, she is married to you! surely I jest, but all jokes aside ask God to help your beautiful bride Nine is one I don't need to tell men but just to utter it once again having *** with your wife isn't just for you make sure she gets something out of it too *** is a love sacrifice and not just a gift and it's great for repairing a marriage rift affirm the good things that you see in your wife it's true what they say, happy wife happy life positivity is important for all and all those things add up, big or small trying to do this on our little strength will only cause stress and worry at length now that you know how God wants you to love ask for help with all this from above