I read this thing about your man that you should do these things, if you can to have a happy loving marriage so both of you will not disparage The first one said to give respect and if you do, you can expect that he will love and honor you because you showed him that you do the second, listen when he speaks and into his heart you'll get little peaks the third one, creating a safe place so he can be vulnerable, his fears erase be honest with him in all you do so he knows he can trust you too the fifth may be the hardest one and it may make you want to run but submit yourself to your man and do the very best you can give him a chance to grow and lead and watch him blossom and succeed six to serve with love and care to do kind things and love and share Seventh to have joy even in rain not seeking him out just to complain eight shows a huge amount of love to ask God to help him from above praying for another opens us wide pulls out all of the bad things we try to hide Nine is easy in the beginning 'cause *** within marriage isn't sinning it's fun, and exciting and easy to do sometimes later, you just don't want to it's important to keep it going though temptation to stray, lurks as we know The last to affirm the good that you see and not circle the drain of negativity always focusing on the positive all of this is good advice to live Your marriage will be filled with love and you can thank a good God up above