When you call a **** poem victim-y. Victim-y is the person who makes Excuses for why they treat people like An *******. "I had a hard life, so I'm an ***." Using excuses for bad behavior.
A woman writing about How she felt about her body After she is ***** is not Victim-y. It is fact. Not a woman alive who's been ***** Will ever say she's not affected. That she hasn't gone home After. Looked in the mirror At the body she's had her whole life. And felt utter shame Less than who she was before. Like the good pieces of her Were ripped away with his touch. Victim-y is excuse. Talking about your loss, As a women. That is utter strength, And those who can't see that. Maybe you're the one playing Victim.
Someone called a **** poem victim-y. Telling her to get over it and stop writing about it.