It was something small. In an effort to persuade me you said: “I barely ever ask you for anything!” Later you revealed that you felt bad, and that you didn’t mean it threateningly. I chose my words carefully in my reply. “I know you didn’t mean it that way.” Because you didn’t. You never do. But it happens anyways. You are unaware of it, I think. You’re unaware of how much you ask of me everyday. Just by being you. Just by being us. In every stinging word, you ask of me to ignore the hurt, because that’s easier than changing. In asking me to bear the weight of who you are, and what you plan to do with yourself. By asking me to be someone I’m not, to be someone that fits you. “I barely ever ask you for anything.” Not intentionally, lover, but in my life I’ve never felt so obligated.