your gratuity is not sincere if it is balanced as a pendulum. the anticipation of return counteracts the authenticity of generosity.
it is acceptance that brings humility- acceptance that a gift is not equal to inherent necessity for reward. you cannot define "gracious" while using the words "owed" or "deserved."
allow every inch of your heart to be a gift. to be opened received and valued for it is not in balance that we show love- but in the counterbalanced abnormality of sharing.