Matthew Scott Harris (the second offspring and only son of Boyce and the late Harriet Harris) made his unheralded debut on a brutally cold January thirteenth almost three score years ago. His father - employed as a mechanical engineer with general electric heard the powerful lungs of this gangly newborn prior to being permitted to cradle said infant. Born in Cincinnati, Ohio, this sole son spent the majority of his fifty plus LIX existence within southeastern Montgomery County Pennsylvania. Extreme shyness in tandem with a congenital speech defect (submucous cleft palate) seemed to alienate him from other class mates. As an outside neutral observer, I watched with gut when ching agony how he seemed socially detached and rarely invited to join in any reindeer games, rather mean kids balled their fists and swung faux pas sucker punches to sleigh **** shay - so they did say. Yes, a gross degree of taunting left him without friends. Lack of confidence and ultra reticence offered hue manna tee to bullies. Matter of fact, this vulnerability, and susceptibility per receiving verbal slings continued thru public education. He graduated without any vocational idea (despite an ignoble attempt to fail - and yet got promoted nonetheless), and then endured parental wrath equal ultimatums with a scathing expletive filled lectures. The absence of clear-cut goals found him enrolling and with drawing from countless colleges and/or universities. Delay with interpersonal success accompanied like a dark shadow creeping closer to the edge of night.