What was Kafka thinking? Felice Bauer- blonde, in a homely sort of way- couldn't think of him the same way after. He'd asked her that question (hidden behind his obsession with his own self-hatred, his surety that she hated him too). Could you- might you- do you think you'd be able to bear it- M a r r y i n g m e? History tells us they didn't tie the knot. Kafka, probably, didn't mind a lot. Franz Kafka: that hopeless man, couldn't look in the mirror without shying from his own reflection. Kafka, who'd balk at the slightest hint of romantic attention. More story than man, really. Had more eloquence in his smallest finger than ever came out of his mouth.