The first words I learn in every language I know Are ones of politesse Danke-s, arigato-s, and go raibh maith agat-s dancing across my lips “It is important” My teachers say To be able to show gratitude for the helpful stranger that shows you the way to your room and opens their culture to you It is important to be able to say please, Even if the rest of the sentence is broken beyond recognition A por favor will set you up for some understanding beyond words, It is important that you can say yes, a diminutive oui so even if you have nothing else to say, they know the explained menu has gotten through somehow and da, you would like the pasta, It is important that you can say no Nein niet non nee níl nem nei não Even if they don’t want to hear it, No Even if it could mean your life, No Is the only word that I never forget to pack in my suitcase.