I used to blame the universe for her absence And I used to think it took her from me. I later thanked the universe for the lessons For bringing her to me and taking her away Until I learned about free will And I realized that I am in the option of everyone's choosing It is not up to fate or even up to the universe of who will stay We have always been in control of our dependence and independence So thank you for coming but just know that I blame you for leaving