Some of us are deleting pictures and videos and memories of people and places and who we used to be. Others are trying to hold on, gripping onto whatever threads they can get a hold of, trying to recover things and conversations that were lost to time and tragedy. For the people trying to move on and not be reminded of whatever they had and all they've lost, I wish you well and I hope you're stronger than the things that coil inside photo frames and secret folders on unsuspecting screens. For the ones who are trying to remember, trying to find some connection into pasts that seem like someone else's; out of a picture book or dusty family albums of people you don't recognise, I wish you luck because to rediscover pasts that have settled down quietly and people who have moved on to other lives is lonely and I wish you courage, to someday find what you're looking for, so you too can join the rest of us who are desperate to forget what we know.