I do not know if I would still love you if you were a happy person. I do not know if you would still love me if I was in less pain. I do not know if I would still love you if you were less depraved. I do not know if you would still love me if I hadn't pushed you away.
I do not know the point of the exercise or why we dwell on what cannot change: You are not a happy person and nothing can fix my pain. I claw away at those who love me and you will always be depraved.