I'm so sick of being told what I can and can't do. "You can't do this, try this instead." They aren't asking me; they're telling me. I don't want to do that, I want to do what I said I wanted to do before. Then I'm told that I am an ungrateful *****, a spoilt brat, a miserable cow, When in reality I'm not. I'm not an"ungrateful *****". I'm not a "spoilt brat". I'm not a "miserable cow". I'm a strong, independent woman who knows what she wants, and is constantly told "no".