Someone is drowning in a sea of faces. He never saw me but I sure saw him. And he was cast away to far off places, But where to bound, he'd never say. I see him draw a shallow breath, decending into the glassy oceans in his eyes. With all the pressure he is barely breathing. He seems as though he is barely alive. Where have you been to get here today? What have you done to become how you are? What have you seen to make it seem this way? You aren't here to catch the train at 8:15. I wanted to ask but I did and said nothing. And I became just another observer. And when the questions were finally answered, Before we could act, it was already over. The train came at 8:15. I never even knew his name. I should have asked him how he'd been. I never asked. We never do.
Men, young and old, make up 75% of all suicide victims, but they are the least represented group when it comes to mental health. Male mental health stigma kills. Let's start asking the right questions.