There I stood, a grown man, (or at least I like to think of myself as one) shaking her hand, her hands; dry, rough, hard, and my hands had never felt so soft as during that moment; so sheltered as when I touched your mother’s hands, her hardened thenar, those callused fingers, flooded me with warmth in the midst of a December night, I could feel her love, those hands that laboured all your life for you, those hands that have toiled for you, your mother’s hands, the hands of love.