It takes pain, sadness,tears to be any good at writing. Whenever we are happy how many people actually write as deep? We don't. When you cry for hours, you think of the perfect words to make someone listen. Actually listen to your story. How many are 'happy' but actually lost their story? In the world, you could cry in the street and everyone would look at you as if your crazy or walk on by. So how do you know, if a person didn't just give up. Every where is a competition on being seen,actually heard and helped. -love