it takes an immense amount of time and energy to think about it, so, I try to live here and then now, just living it not reminiscing or planning the next move, It leads to a bad credit rating, broke up relationships, many clothes and record collections burned, I still mourn, just not as often the loss of my Air Jordans' my favorite blue jeans, my notebook with drawings of my next tattoo and my Grateful Dead Lp's , and my I -phone I just bought, that ounce I had hid in those jeans, along with several contacts and her picture, but in the now I see, a big fire.