It's long been known by man without finance. You get no romance. Woman that plain gets criticized for just being simple. Its' to them isn't about wealth. But about the purpose.
If a man dates a woman that loves to spend upon him. He instantly label a manipulator or a user. But research has supported guys views that many ladies that divorces saves so much more.
Cause mostly likely courts requires him to pay child support and more.
Women like men say twisted words to impress. And yes, some come straight with truth and very direct. Dating, is a game of manipulation to win your choice of lover.