Suffering builds character while Love heals your mind. Something that with Age that I realize that right now. That when you are struggling, life seems harder then. Each trial or struggle seems to be getting worst then the last. But in the very end of the schemes of Life right here now. The hardships only make each of us a stronger person here. Thus helping us to become Overcomers through Christ. So when you do seem overwhelm here go a head and cry. Then pray for his Strength within you to help build you up.