You're moving in with your girlfriend and many people have congratulated you. You've asked me to do the same but that is something I can't and won't do. I won't congratulate you because you and your girlfriend will be living in sin. I won't condone premarital ***, don't ask for my congratulations ever again. Yes, I have old-fashioned morals that you consider to be out of date. I won't congratulate you because you're doing something that God hates.