Sometimes people miss the truth about God. Losing having fun because you start to follow him. Running on empty, hiding from God here. He doesn't want to ruin your life my friend. But he wants to use you and bless you as well. For Christ is not a party-pooper here on earth. He drank alcohol when he was here on earth. He just never abuse the alcohol on earth here. He ate some awesome meals as well here too. So do not feel by giving him your life here. That you shall never enjoy life here again.