Live your life to the very fullest , that you can. Love others to the very fullest as well, my friend. Never hate nor reject anyone from God's Kingdom. For his ways are not like our ways, for he knows all. While we walk in Faith, trusting in him in everything. He create miracles every day for us to see in others. That person that you sit and judge could be his next. With full repentance, that person could change today. So instead of Judging , pray for all of the wicked.