nearly 200 years ago which means my genetics have directly contributed to the current system that continues thrusting knees on the throats of an entire race of brothers and sisters.
Sick knots of frustration churn in my stomach while fist and eyelids clench tight burning razor tears slowly trickling down my face at the very idea one of my ancestors-- part of my DNA once treated a living, breathing woman of color like a permanent maid meant only to labor inside and outside.
I'm sharing this to admit and reveal my family's complacency in a system continuing to reap the so-called benefits from a capitalist mindset that has upgraded beyond physical cold metal shackles, evolving into ball and chain conversation words where people worry more about property damage from riots instead of deaths at the hands of the fraternal order of timeout.
I'm sharing this to continue conversations for so long in America have been shuffled around, cast aside as if it were an embarrassing high school phase politely laughed away like on holidays when my family and I would listen to grandparent's occasional choice phrases that began "Well the blacks are just blah blah blah..."
Like a child caught ******* by parents, our pale shame has made us bury the past below sea level hoping nobody would notice. But now, the skeletons are beginning to rise, seeping through the ground along with fears of other dusty bones buried under the red road.
Many of our ancestors have been trying to dig deeper holes with phrases like "I don't understand, there was MLK and Honest Abe, what more dotheywant?" ploughing ahead with fingers shoved in ears singing "La la la let's just move on, it was a long time ago" overlooking the equality and empathy that has been lacking up to the present. Like two leaders could wave a magic wand overnight erasing the dismissive dis-ease of white skinned superiority we've been weaving into of our laws, conditioning into our DNA, evolving from slavery to segregation to target practice and tax brackets despite singing "Land of the free" even though there's a disparity between rioters in inner cities being called "thugs" while rioters at sport events are "party goers."
The first step is acknowledgement, unfortunately we can't force someone to understand, but we can support and be there for our brothers and sisters with kind, encouraging words, taking steps to pull out of the land and people selling business, instead investing in the new currency of presence and attention unlike my ancestors. almost 200 years ago.
Some say if you dig up the past, all you get is *****.
Tell that to archeologist constantly discovering new things or therapists guiding others through traumatic past events.