If you fear they will find someone better, to them, you will become insecure and unattractive. If you think they will never find anyone better, your arrogance will push them away. If you never hold them, theyβll never know you love their touch. If you hold them too much, theyβll be happy to get away. If you hurt them, they will hurt you back. If you hit them, they might like it if you do it the right way.