I. Physiological
If you were air, I would gladly take you in,
fill my lungs with every particle that is you.
You’ve been a significant part of me
that taking you away
would cause so much distress,
would wreak instability—
*disequilibrium.
II. Safety
When you enclose me in your arms,
pay attention to the things I say,
fill every inch of me with kisses,
smile at me reassuringly,
that’s when I know I’m safe—
that I’m secured,
that I’m home.
III. Love or Belonging
I like the idea of us
having the same wavelength:
our interests go in the same direction,
and sometimes go their separate ways;
but at some point, would intersect beautifully.
IV. Esteem
I used to think less of myself—
always not good enough,
almost there but not really.
I never really thought I mattered
until you showed me…
V. Self-Actualization
It would be pretentious if I told you that
I am a self-actualized person now;
but with you, I’ve come to terms with my demons.
And in you, I found joy and fulfillment.
*I love you.