I believe we have different definitions of love, my love.
I experience it as a force, unparalleled. My heart chose you. I knew I lusted, liked, cared. I was afraid to love. It took me five months, and then it hit me. It hit me so hard, it reminded me that love is not a choice.
I saw you. Your faults. Your darkness. The shadows that pass over your eyes. The moments fear appeared and you shrugged it off. Your intricate complexities shimmer in the morning sun pouring through the window, casting shadows and creating rainbows.
And yet, I love you.
I offered you my heart, from my open palm. It came with an embrace that told you that you were safe. You took it, because it was offered, because it felt good, because you wanted to be loved. I told you about the shadows that follow me too, about my fears, about what I needed in return. And I continued to give for months, until I was too tired, until I didn't have more to give without getting.
Six months ago; we parted as friends, there was no anger, there was some pain. We were different people who wanted different things. Hearing you tell me you didn't see a future with me three times was enough. The end of a relationship is always sad, it's a mourning of your future. A forever what if. But I could still feel my heart beating in my chest. It felt like the right decision.
Five months ago; you told me pretty things, suddenly. You told me space and time made you know that you love me. I asked for more time. I asked you to really think about these pretty things. I asked if you were just lonely, or if you missed me. I asked you to be careful with my heart, it's been broken too many times to count. You promised it was real.
Three months ago; I started to believe you, you remained so consistent, appeared so introspective. I offered to see you. I still knew how I felt. We talked, for hours upon hours. There was so much hope, my love. I had so much hope.
One month ago; you wanted to go on a date driving me through neighborhoods you could envision us living our lives in.
Two weeks ago; I asked if you were okay, and you told me you were just tired from work.
A week ago; you came to my family's welcoming of the New Year.
Three days ago; I asked if something was wrong and you told me you wanted to wait to talk about it.
Three days ago; I asked you to share, because I felt excluded from our relationship.
Three days ago; you told me you couldn't do this, that your psychedelic experiences the last month have made it clear that you need to be free. That my response to you pushing was pulling, that it was off-putting. That settling down with me meant settling in life. You then told me a narrative, created a caricature, that made me question if you have ever understood me, if you ever listened to the things I did express. You told me you had a new life plan; it was a plan for you, not for us. You told me you were running to the other side of the world.
Three days ago; I told you I was confused, that this felt like a mistake. I asked you to just talk to me. But I saw your wall quickly, and I knew it was over.
Four days ago; I KNEW we had a future.
Three days ago; We parted and I felt my heart break. We parted, and you still want to be friends. There is confusion, there is pain. You no longer want the same things. Hearing you tell me you didn't see a future with me four times was too many. The end of a relationship is always sad, but this one was devastating. I could see it, you showed it to me. I can't feel my heart beating in my chest anymore. It felt like the wrong decision.