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Edna dsouza Aug 2020
Give away attachments in favor of happiness. Attachment to her, Attachment to him, Attachment to things, Attachment to hope, dreams, and beliefs. Attachment makes you heavy. Attachment drains you. It holds you just tight enough to let you see the world, but not explore it. There was no emotional attachment it was just emotions. Attachments often make you weak once you become so attached to that person or anything that hurts when u lose it cause losing it makes u remember all those attachments all those feelings or those things that made you smile and now you lost all of them all at once and now you are blank lost everything only those memories and not the person just a few memories will vanish too but you won’t get those golden days back .what made us so weak that we rely on attachments so much that makes us so weak. When you love someone who doesn't love you back. You feel nothing but absolute pain and sorrow. You feel like there nothing left except the love that won't be taken. Your love is so strong and there’s so much that it floods you. It’s just because you attached so got hurt right? You start mentally torturing and hurting yourself well mental torture and pain hurts more than physical pain. Physical scars vanish someday but this mental pain that is in your mind hurts you more scars remain forever. Even if you want to remove it or forget those scars and memories you can’t it hurts so badly which makes you hurt those attachments almost **** you because you were so attached to that thing that now being without that is similar as a death cause you become so habitual to it that others remain useless and even if you want to change yourself it’s so difficult. The feelings we get when meeting someone new are hard to understand at times. But once we understand and when we get attached and when that person makes them your habit and then leaves. That moment is the most hurtful moment ever you numb don’t know how to react how to smile again how to be happy you can’t even fake a smile because it’s so difficult. Attachments and emotions go side by side cause its always you are emotionally attached that even a simple change in a person in whom you are attached can change your mood and emotional effect you just imagine a certain change can upset you and losing them affect you far more than you can imagine. We humans easily get attached and then hurt ourselves and then blame our luck no it’s our fault we allow someone something to be so attached that slight change in their behavior also hurts you It hurt right when u attached with the person who now taught you detachment nonattachments is so perfect freedom everywhere Happiness nothing that would hurt you Self-love is the best Attachments make u emotional sick attachment hurts so don’t get attached I know it sounds rude but all it means I don’t want anyone to feel the pain I already faced because I know how it feels and you know what? Don’t let any day go where your dedications to other peoples opinion are greater or maybe others opinion more important than your own happiness and decisions and don’t let anyone don’t let you fly you have your wings to fly others on your own and not after the approval of others you better get this. Well, I know attachments make you happy but it’s ready to give you pain anytime suddenly. Start loving yourself and see the difference how happy you be because self-love is the best love start loving yourself your imperfections and once you start loving your imperfections you will understand what’s love and what’s been loved because no one will love you how you love yourself so stop being your biggest rival by hating yourself and demotivating yourself. PART OF ME IS AFRAID TO GET CLOSE TO PEOPLE BECAUSE I AM AFRAID THAT THEY ARE GOING TO LEAVE.

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