to-day I attended my cousin's funeral service it was a casual laid back kind of affair no preacher going on for ages with vacuous words a celebrant spoke of my cousin's love ofΒ the young and the elderly her husband wrote a poem of dedication to his beloved Tess throughout the service her favorite songs were featured the Bon Jovi tune "To Be My Baby" had family and friends tapping their feet on our departure from the crematorium the strains of Tim McGraw's " Please Remember Me" played the day was as Tess wanted casual and no fuss