When you're sixty plus and trans you don't get many offers so need to issue them instead when your life's been short of romance it's hard to break on through easier for invitations to stay unsaid
If you're younger, more attractive it can be hard to understand just what it's like for someone who is far less in demand
So if I should give an invitation remember that's all it is don't let embarrassment appear you can say "Yes" or "No" or "Maybe" respond to the invitation given not to some imagined fear