I am not the object of your affection, when you show that affection only in the presence of others. Or that affection is never shown, but are merely empty words spoken out of a societal-induced sense of "obligation".
I am not your most prized centerpiece that you can place in a room to invoke the ooh's and aah's that make you the envy of strangers. And afterward, I'm placed in a corner till the next time I'm required.
I am not your "main attraction" put on display. I don't dance nor entertain so you can bathe in the attention of the people who, once this is all over, won't even remember your name.